Living the Lessons, Part 5: The Real Work of Accountability
In his biweekly column, Langley Shazor addresses issues important to men in the territory, emphasizing the significance of self-management.
Growth is not about public actions, but about honesty and accountability in private, as
it is not about what you do in public, it is about how honest and accountable you are in private. The real work begins and ends with oneself.
Emotional intelligence involves introspection, asking oneself questions like:
- How do you handle your triggers when alone?
- Are you self-aware or self-critical?
- Do you manage your emotions or explain them away?
This internal examination determines whether growth is sustainable or performative.
Author's summary: Accountability with oneself is the hardest to maintain.