Donald Clarke reflects on Jimmy Kimmel’s recent visit to Ireland, noting that while the TV host was polite in his remarks, he misunderstands Irish people’s nature. Clarke shares a personal story from decades ago that shaped his view on politeness and generosity.
About 40 years ago, Clarke traveled to New York City on a J1 visa and sought work in a familiar field. He found that contacting the relevant union was necessary. The lady he met there was exceptionally helpful, offering advice, job leads, and phone numbers for over half an hour. She warmly said:
“You came all this way without a job? Let’s see what we can do.”
Before that, Clarke had thought New Yorkers were occasionally brusque but not rude. The union representative’s kindness surprised him, changing his perspective.
Clarke connects this experience to Kimmel’s positive comments on Ireland, where the host praised Irish decency, friendliness, and political maturity. Though Kimmel mentioned leprechauns early in his remarks, his overall tone was complimentary.
“Now, don’t let anyone tell you New Yorkers are rude,” the lady said, a thought Clarke hadn’t yet considered at the time.
Clarke concludes that Irish people are no more polite or generous than citizens of other places, including those back home in America, countering any idealized views.
This piece highlights the universality of politeness and generosity across cultures, challenging idealized stereotypes through personal experience and observation.